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New Testament Passages Concerning Women - Part Two of Two



by Dave Root, VividChristianity.com, last modified on 01/12/2024.


Introduction

In this article we'll answer these questions:
  • Are women allowed to be pastors?
  • Are women allowed to be apostles?
  • Are women allowed to be prophets or evangelists?
  • What is "headship"?
  • What does "submission" mean?
  • Are women allowed to teach?
  • What did Paul mean when he said "there is neither male nor female"?


Are Women Allowed to Be Pastors?

In Part One we saw that the weight of evidence shows that women are allowed to hold the position of an elder, bishop, overseer, leader, pastor, preacher, or teacher in church or in ministry. Now let's take a look at what the New Testament says about pastors.

In the NIV (and in other translations), the word "pastor" only occurs in this verse:
"It was he who gave some to be apostles, some to be prophets, some to be evangelists, and some to be pastors and teachers" (Ephesians 4:11)
The word "pastors" in the above verse is translated from the Greek word poimen, which means:
"1) a herdsman, especially a shepherd
1a) in the parable, he to whose care and control others have committed themselves, and whose precepts they follow
2) metaphorically
2a) the presiding officer, manager, director, of any assembly: so of Christ the Head of the church
2a1) of the overseers of the Christian assemblies
2a2) of kings and princes" (Thayer's Greek Dictionary, poimen)

"The Greek word translated "pastors" in Eph 4:11 is used elsewhere in the New Testament of sheepherders, literally or symbolically (Mat 25:32); of Jesus, the Good Shepherd (John 10); and of "shepherds," or leaders, of the church (Eph 4:11). The NKJV uses the word "pastor" only in this verse." (Nelson's New Illustrated Bible Dictionary, "pastor")

"poimen (G4166), "a shepherd, one who tends herds or flocks" (not merely one who feeds them), is used metaphorically of Christian "pastors," Eph 4:11. "Pastors" guide as well as feed the flock, cf. Act 20:28, which with Act 20:17, indicates that this was the service committed to elders (overseers or bishops); so also in 1Pe 5:1, 1Pe 5:2, "tend the flock...exercising the oversight," RV; this involves tender care and vigilant superintendence. See SHEPHERD." (Vine's Complete Expository Dictionary of New Testament Words, "pastor")

"Shepherd, one who generally cares for flocks...The spiritual guide of a particular church (Eph. 4:11)" (The Complete Word Study Dictionary of the Old and New Testaments, Dr. Spiros Zodhiates, poimen)
So the Greek word translated as "pastor" really means "shepherd." Here's every place in the New Testament where this Greek word is used:
"When he saw the crowds, he had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd [poimen]." (Matthew 9:36)

"All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another as a shepherd [poimen] separates the sheep from the goats." (Matthew 25:32)

"Then Jesus told them, "This very night you will all fall away on account of me, for it is written: 'I will strike the shepherd [poimen], and the sheep of the flock will be scattered.'"" (Matthew 26:31)

"When Jesus landed and saw a large crowd, he had compassion on them, because they were like sheep without a shepherd [poimen]. So he began teaching them many things." (Mark 6:34)

""You will all fall away," Jesus told them, "for it is written: 'I will strike the shepherd [poimen], and the sheep will be scattered.'"" (Mark 14:27)

"And there were shepherds [poimen] living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night." (Luke 2:8)

"When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds [poimen] said to one another, "Let's go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about."" (Luke 2:15)

"and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds [poimen] said to them." (Luke 2:18)

"The shepherds [poimen] returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things they had heard and seen, which were just as they had been told." (Luke 2:20)

"The man who enters by the gate is the shepherd [poimen] of his sheep." (John 10:2)

"I am the good shepherd [poimen]. The good shepherd [poimen] lays down his life for the sheep. The hired hand is not the shepherd [poimen] who owns the sheep. So when he sees the wolf coming, he abandons the sheep and runs away. Then the wolf attacks the flock and scatters it. The man runs away because he is a hired hand and cares nothing for the sheep. I am the good shepherd [poimen]; I know my sheep and my sheep know me" (John 10:11)

"I have other sheep that are not of this sheep pen. I must bring them also. They too will listen to my voice, and there shall be one flock and one shepherd [poimen]." (John 10:16)

"It was he who gave some to be apostles, some to be prophets, some to be evangelists, and some to be pastors [poimen] and teachers" (Ephesians 4:11)

"May the God of peace, who through the blood of the eternal covenant brought back from the dead our Lord Jesus, that great Shepherd [poimen] of the sheep" (Hebrews 13:20)

"For you were like sheep going astray, but now you have returned to the Shepherd [poimen] and Overseer of your souls." (1 Peter 2:25)
So the Greek word poimen is always translated as "shepherd" in the NIV (and in other versions of the Bible), with the single exception of Ephesians 4:11 where it's translated as "pastors." The English word "pastor" (singular or plural) doesn't appear anywhere else in the New Testament.

Throughout the New Testament we can see several different offices in the church, such as apostles and prophets and evangelists. But if you search online for New Testament offices that are specifically for the local church, you'll find that there are only two. One is the office of a deacon, and the other is the office of an elder (also referred to as bishop, overseer, leader, and pastor, as we saw in Part One).

In the following passages, notice that elders were shepherds of the church, and elders were overseers of the church, and elders directed the affairs of the church, and there were elders whose work was preaching and teaching. All of these duties that we normally associate as being a pastor's duties were in reality done by elders. To make this point more clearly, every time you see the word "elders" (or one of the other terms for this office) in the following passages, ask yourself, "Where are the pastors?"
"This they did, sending their gift to the elders by Barnabas and Saul [where are the pastors?]." (Acts 11:30)

"Paul and Barnabas appointed elders for them in each church [where are the pastors?] and, with prayer and fasting, committed them to the Lord, in whom they had put their trust." (Acts 14:23)

"This brought Paul and Barnabas into sharp dispute and debate with them. So Paul and Barnabas were appointed, along with some other believers, to go up to Jerusalem to see the apostles and elders about this question [where are the pastors?]. The church sent them on their way, and as they traveled through Phoenicia and Samaria, they told how the Gentiles had been converted. This news made all the believers very glad. When they came to Jerusalem, they were welcomed by the church and the apostles and elders, to whom they reported everything God had done through them. Then some of the believers who belonged to the party of the Pharisees stood up and said, "The Gentiles must be circumcised and required to keep the law of Moses." The apostles and elders met to consider this question [where are the pastors?]." (Acts 15:2-6)

"Then the apostles and elders, with the whole church, decided to choose some of their own men and send them to Antioch with Paul and Barnabas. They chose Judas (called Barsabbas) and Silas, men who were leaders among the believers. With them they sent the following letter: The apostles and elders [where are the pastors?], your brothers, To the Gentile believers in Antioch, Syria and Cilicia: Greetings." (Acts 15:22-23)

"As they traveled from town to town, they delivered the decisions reached by the apostles and elders in Jerusalem [where are the pastors?] for the people to obey." (Acts 16:4)

"From Miletus, Paul sent to Ephesus for the elders of the church [where are the pastors?]." (Acts 20:17)

"Therefore take heed to yourselves and to all the flock, among which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers, to shepherd the church of God which He purchased with His own blood [where are the pastors?]." (Acts 20:28 NKJV)

"The next day Paul and the rest of us went to see James, and all the elders were present [where are the pastors?]." (Acts 21:18)

"It was he who gave some to be apostles, some to be prophets, some to be evangelists, and some to be pastors [literally "shepherds"] and teachers" (Ephesians 4:11)

"Paul and Timothy, servants of Christ Jesus, To all God's holy people in Christ Jesus at Philippi, together with the overseers and deacons [where are the pastors?]" (Philippians 1:1)

"Now the overseer is to be above reproach, faithful to his wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach" (1 Timothy 3:2)

"The elders who direct the affairs of the church well are worthy of double honor, especially those whose work is preaching and teaching [where are the pastors?]. For Scripture says, "Do not muzzle an ox while it is treading out the grain," and "The worker deserves his wages." Do not entertain an accusation against an elder unless it is brought by two or three witnesses. But those elders [the Greek word for "elders" does not appear here] who are sinning you are to reprove before everyone, so that the others may take warning." (1 Timothy 5:17-20)

"The reason I left you in Crete was that you might put in order what was left unfinished and appoint elders in every town [where are the pastors?], as I directed you. An elder [the Greek word for "elder" does not appear here] must be blameless, faithful to his wife, a man whose children believe and are not open to the charge of being wild and disobedient. Since an overseer manages God's household, he must be blameless - not overbearing, not quick-tempered, not given to drunkenness, not violent, not pursuing dishonest gain." (Titus 1:5-7)

"Is anyone among you sick? Let them call the elders of the church [where are the pastors?] to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of the Lord." (James 5:14)

"To the elders among you [where are the pastors?], I appeal as a fellow elder and a witness of Christ's sufferings who also will share in the glory to be revealed" (1 Peter 5:1)

"The elder, To the lady chosen by God and to her children, whom I love in the truth - and not I only, but also all who know the truth" (2 John 1:1)

"The elder, To my dear friend Gaius, whom I love in the truth." (3 John 1:1)
These are all of the New Testament passages that use the Greek words for elder/bishop/overseer in the context of the human offices in the local church.

What we've seen is that there's no specific office called "pastor" in the New Testament (also called "minister" in some denominations). Instead, it was the elders/overseers who performed the functions that we think of as being a pastor's duties. Our modern concept of a senior pastor who has the ultimate authority over a local church is a human invention and is not scriptural, which means that it's against God's will.

For example, notice that Jesus is referred to as "the shepherd" and "that great Shepherd" and "the Chief Shepherd":
"Then Jesus told them, "This very night you will all fall away on account of me, for it is written: 'I will strike the shepherd, and the sheep of the flock will be scattered.'"" (Matthew 26:31)

"When they had finished eating, Jesus said to Simon Peter, "Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?" "Yes, Lord," he said, "you know that I love you." Jesus said, "Feed my lambs." Again Jesus said, "Simon son of John, do you love me?" He answered, "Yes, Lord, you know that I love you." Jesus said, "Take care of my sheep." The third time he said to him, "Simon son of John, do you love me?" Peter was hurt because Jesus asked him the third time, "Do you love me?" He said, "Lord, you know all things; you know that I love you." Jesus said, "Feed my sheep."" (John 21:15-17)

"From Miletus, Paul sent to Ephesus for the elders of the church. When they arrived, he said to them: "...Keep watch over yourselves and all the flock of which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers. Be shepherds of the church of God, which he bought with his own blood. I know that after I leave, savage wolves will come in among you and will not spare the flock."" (Acts 20:17-18, 28-29)

"Now may the God of peace, who through the blood of the eternal covenant brought back from the dead our Lord Jesus, that great Shepherd of the sheep" (Hebrews 13:20)

"To the elders among you, I appeal as a fellow elder and a witness of Christ's sufferings who also will share in the glory to be revealed: Be shepherds of God's flock that is under your care, watching over them - not because you must, but because you are willing, as God wants you to be; not pursuing dishonest gain, but eager to serve; not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock. And when the Chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the crown of glory that will never fade away." (1 Peter 5:1-4)
In all of the above passages, Christians are referred to as the sheep of God's flock, and Jesus referred to them as "my sheep" and said that "there shall be one flock and one shepherd." In the above passages, Jesus is referred to as "the shepherd" and "that great Shepherd" and "the Chief Shepherd." The sheep belong to Jesus because He bought them with His blood (Acts 20:17-18, 28-29, above).

The above passages also tell us that elders are to feed and take care of Jesus' sheep, keeping watch over the flock as overseers, shepherding and watching over God's flock that's under their care. They should be acknowledged and honored as the leaders of the local church, directing the affairs of the local church. Some of the elders that most churches refer to as pastors should receive financial support from their church:
"The elders who direct the affairs of the church [proistemi] well are worthy of double honor, especially those whose work is preaching and teaching. For Scripture says, "Do not muzzle an ox while it is treading out the grain," and "The worker deserves his wages."" (1 Timothy 5:17-18)
The Greek word proistemi in the above passage is translated as "direct the affairs of the church" in the NIV and "rule" in the KJV and NKJV, and it refers to leading, managing, and maintaining. For example, here are all of the passages in the New Testament that use this Greek word (apart from 1 Timothy 5:17-18, above):
"We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith; if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead [proistemi], do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully." (Romans 12:6-8)

"And we urge you, brethren, to recognize those who labor among you, and are over [proistemi] you in the Lord and admonish you, and to esteem them very highly in love for their work's sake. Be at peace among yourselves." (1 Thessalonians 5:12-13 NKJV)

"Now the overseer is to be above reproach, faithful to his wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. He must manage [proistemi] his own family well and see that his children obey him, and he must do so in a manner worthy of full respect. (If anyone does not know how to manage [proistemi] his own family, how can he take care of God's church?)" (1 Timothy 3:2-5)

"A deacon must be faithful to his wife and must manage [proistemi] his children and his household well." (1 Timothy 3:12)

"This is a faithful saying, and these things I want you to affirm constantly, that those who have believed in God should be careful to maintain [proistemi] good works. These things are good and profitable to men." (Titus 3:8)

"And let our people also learn to maintain [proistemi] good works, to meet urgent needs, that they may not be unfruitful." (Titus 3:14)
So elders/overseers are to "lead" and "manage" and "take care of" God's flock. However, they're specifically told not to lord it over their staff or congregation:
"To the elders among you, I appeal as a fellow elder and a witness of Christ's sufferings who also will share in the glory to be revealed: Be shepherds of God's flock that is under your care, watching over them - not because you must, but because you are willing, as God wants you to be; not pursuing dishonest gain, but eager to serve; not lording it over [katakurieuo] those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock." (1 Peter 5:1-3)
The Greek word katakurieuo in the above passage means "To rule over, exercise authority,...By implication, to get the mastery of, overpower, subdue" (The Complete Word Study Dictionary of the Old and New Testaments, Dr. Spiros Zodhiates, katakurieuo). Here are all of the passages in the New Testament that use this Greek word (apart from 1 Peter 5:1-3, above):
"Jesus called them together and said, "You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it [katakurieuo] over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant"" (Matthew 20:25-26)

"Jesus called them together and said, "You know that those who are regarded as rulers of the Gentiles lord it [katakurieuo] over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant"" (Mark 10:42-43)

"Then the man who had the evil spirit jumped on them and overpowered [katakurieuo] them all. He gave them such a beating that they ran out of the house naked and bleeding." (Acts 19:16)
Again, elders/overseers are to "lead" and "manage" and "take care of" and "feed" and "be examples to" God's flock, but they're specifically told not to lord it over their staff or congregation. Elders and pastors are Jesus' sheep just as much as anyone else. Our modern concept of a senior pastor who has the ultimate authority over a local church is a human invention and is not scriptural, which means that it's against God's will. Instead, we see elders (plural) being appointed in each church, and we've seen that different elders had different responsibilities:
"Paul and Barnabas appointed elders for them in each church and, with prayer and fasting, committed them to the Lord, in whom they had put their trust." (Acts 14:23)

"Is anyone among you sick? Let them call the elders of the church to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of the Lord." (James 5:14)
So a local church should have elders (plural). There's not a shred of scriptural support for a church having elders or associate pastors or other types of pastors who report to a senior pastor that's in authority over them.

Since different elders/overseers have different gifts and different roles in the local church as we've seen, and since the New Testament uses different words such as "elder" and "overseer" for the same office, there's nothing wrong with using the word "pastor" for a person who has certain roles in the local church. If one of these people is the main preacher or teacher, and receives their income from the church, and is essentially the public face of the church, then there's nothing wrong with referring to that person as "senior pastor." The important point from all of the above passages is that there should be no difference in authority between the elders in a church. The senior pastor should be no different authority-wise than the other elders in their church because everyone who is referred to as a pastor is really an elder according to all of the scriptural evidence.

As we saw, senior pastors should receive financial support from their church, and sometimes other churches will offer to hire pastors away from their current churches. Pastors might accept these job offers based on a number of factors, such as a higher income for their families, better opportunities for ministry, a better environment and better schools for their kids, being closer to other family members, feeling called to make the move, etc. There's nothing wrong with them accepting other job offers and leaving their current church because they need to take care of their families and grow in their careers just like anyone else.

In the following passage, Jesus said that there is one flock and one shepherd, and He said that there are "hired hands" who tend the sheep but don't own the sheep:
[Jesus is speaking] "I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep. The hired hand is not the shepherd and does not own the sheep. So when he sees the wolf coming, he abandons the sheep and runs away. Then the wolf attacks the flock and scatters it. The man runs away because he is a hired hand and cares nothing for the sheep. I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me - just as the Father knows me and I know the Father - and I lay down my life for the sheep. I have other sheep that are not of this sheep pen. I must bring them also. They too will listen to my voice, and there shall be one flock and one shepherd." (John 10:11-16)
These "hired hands" who tend the sheep are the pastors who are paid by their church. Jesus gave an example of a hired hand leaving the sheep when a wolf comes, but we've seen that there are plenty of other reasons why pastors might leave their current churches. Leaving a congregation for other opportunities isn't wrong (in fact, it's often an important part of a pastor's personal growth), but it demonstrates that a human cannot care as much about the flock as the Chief Shepherd does. Jesus' point was that He owns the flock, and that He is the Shepherd, so He's the One in charge. Pastors are the hired hands who serve the Chief Shepherd in a local church, they're not meant to be in authority over everyone else in the local church. Again, all elders, overseers, and pastors are part of the Chief Shepherd's flock just like the rest of the congregation.

In Part One we saw that the weight of evidence shows that women are allowed to be elders. Therefore, women are allowed to be pastors because we've seen that all pastors are actually elders.

For example, it's possible that a woman named Priscilla was this type of elder. Here are all of the references to her (and her husband Aquila):
"There he met a Jew named Aquila, a native of Pontus, who had recently come from Italy with his wife Priscilla, because Claudius had ordered all the Jews to leave Rome. Paul went to see them, and because he was a tentmaker as they were, he stayed and worked with them." (Acts 18:2-3)

"Paul stayed on in Corinth for some time. Then he left the brothers and sailed for Syria, accompanied by Priscilla and Aquila. Before he sailed, he had his hair cut off at Cenchrea because of a vow he had taken. They arrived at Ephesus, where Paul left Priscilla and Aquila [their names are not mentioned here in the Greek]. He himself went into the synagogue and reasoned with the Jews." (Acts 18:18-19)

"He [Apollos] began to speak boldly in the synagogue. When Priscilla and Aquila heard him, they invited him to their home and explained to him the way of God more adequately." (Acts 18:26)

"Greet Priscilla and Aquila, my fellow workers in Christ Jesus. They risked their lives for me. Not only I but all the churches of the Gentiles are grateful to them. Greet also the church that meets at their house. (Romans 16:3-5)

"The churches in the province of Asia send you greetings. Aquila and Priscilla greet you warmly in the Lord, and so does the church that meets at their house." (1 Corinthians 16:19)

"Greet Priscilla and Aquila and the household of Onesiphorus." (2 Timothy 4:19)
Considering the male-oriented societies of the first century, it's interesting that when Priscilla and Aquila are mentioned, Priscilla's name is usually mentioned first. In fact, Paul gives her prominence over her husband in most of the times he mentioned them in the above passages. This implies that Priscilla was more prominent in some way than her husband was, as these commentaries suggest:
"Notice that the name of Priscilla precedes that of her husband. So Act 18:2. Probably she was the more prominent of the two in christian activity." (Vincent's Word Studies in the New Testament, Romans 16:3, emphasis added)

"Prisca and Aquila (Priskan kai Akulan). This order always (Act 18:18, Act 18:26; 2Ti 4:19, and here) save in Act 18:2; 1Co 16:19, showing that Prisca was the more prominent." (Robertson's Word Pictures in the New Testament, Romans 16:3, emphasis added)

"Instead of abusing the young and brilliant preacher [Apollos] for his ignorance they (particularly Priscilla) gave him the fuller story of the life and work of Jesus and of the apostolic period to fill up the gaps in his knowledge." (Robertson's Word Pictures in the New Testament, Acts 18:26, emphasis added)

"The fact that the name of the wife comes first here, and in Act 18:2, seems to imply that she was the more efficient." (The People's New Testament commentary, Romans 16:3-5, emphasis added)

"The wife is here named before the husband (as in Act 18:18, and Rom 16:26, according to the true reading; also in 2Ti 4:19), probably as being the more prominent and helpful to the Church." (Jamieson, Fausset, and Brown Commentary, Romans 16:3-5, emphasis added)

"Priscilla and Aquila. The order of the names used here (but cf. v. 2) may indicate the prominent role of Priscilla or her higher social position" (NIV Study Bible, p.2135, emphasis added)
Priscilla and Aquila held church meetings in their home (Romans 16:3-5, 1 Corinthians 16:19, above), and the way in which Priscilla and Aquila are highly regarded in the above passages makes it likely that they were elders in the church that met in their home. Since Priscilla's name is usually mentioned before her husband's name, apparently she held a more prominent or active position as an elder or teacher than her husband did.

To summarize, the weight of evidence shows that women are allowed to be pastors, other than our unscriptural modern concept of a senior pastor who holds the ultimate authority over a local church.


Are Women Allowed to Be Apostles?

Here are all of the people in the New Testament who possibly had an apostolic ministry:
"These are the names of the twelve apostles [apostolos]: first, Simon (who is called Peter) and his brother Andrew; James son of Zebedee, and his brother John; Philip and Bartholomew; Thomas and Matthew the tax collector; James son of Alphaeus, and Thaddaeus; Simon the Zealot and Judas Iscariot, who betrayed him." (Matthew 10:2-4)

"Then they prayed, "Lord, you know everyone's heart. Show us which of these two you have chosen to take over this apostolic ministry, which Judas left to go where he belongs." Then they cast lots, and the lot fell to Matthias; so he was added to the eleven apostles [apostolos]." (Acts 1:24-26)

"But when the apostles [apostolos] Barnabas and Paul heard of this, they tore their clothes and rushed out into the crowd, shouting" (Acts 14:14)

"Greet Andronicus and Junias, my relatives who have been in prison with me. They are outstanding among the apostles [apostolos], and they were in Christ before I was." (Romans 16:7)

"Now, brothers and sisters, I have applied these things to myself and Apollos for your benefit, so that you may learn from us the meaning of the saying, "Do not go beyond what is written." Then you will not be puffed up in being a follower of one of us over against the other. For who makes you different from anyone else? What do you have that you did not receive? And if you did receive it, why do you boast as though you did not? Already you have all you want! Already you have become rich! You have begun to reign - and that without us! How I wish that you really had begun to reign so that we also might reign with you! For it seems to me that God has put us apostles [apostolos] on display at the end of the procession, like those condemned to die in the arena. We have been made a spectacle to the whole universe, to angels as well as to human beings." (1 Corinthians 4:6-9)

"But I think it is necessary to send back to you Epaphroditus, my brother, co-worker and fellow soldier, who is also your messenger [apostolos], whom you sent to take care of my needs." (Philippians 2:25)

"Paul, Silas and Timothy, To the church of the Thessalonians in God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ: Grace and peace to you...We were not looking for praise from men, not from you or anyone else. As apostles [apostolos] of Christ we could have been a burden to you" (1 Thessalonians 1:1, 2:6)

"Therefore, holy brothers, who share in the heavenly calling, fix your thoughts on Jesus, the apostle [apostolos] and high priest whom we confess." (Hebrews 3:1)
Matthew 10:2-4 (above) describes the original 12 apostles, and Hebrews 3:1 (above) says that Jesus was an apostle. Any other apostles in the above passages were appointed to that position by God after Jesus died and was resurrected. In 1 Corinthians 4:6-9 (above), Paul might have been saying that Apollos was a fellow apostle, but it's not completely clear if that's what he meant. Paul referred to Epaphroditus as an apostolos (Philippians 2:25, above), which is the Greek word for "apostle," but it's likely that Paul was using that Greek word in the sense of "messenger" (for example, see Philippians 4:18).

In Romans 16:7 (above), if the person named "Junias" was a woman (as many people believe), and if she was an apostle, then she's the only female apostle mentioned in the New Testament. Some ancient manuscripts of the Bible have "Junia" in this verse, and other ancient manuscripts have "Junias," so there are differences of opinion about whether this person's name should have a masculine or a feminine ending. Some people say that Andronicus and Junia must have been husband and wife based on the fact that their names are paired together in Romans 16:7 (above), which would mean that Junia was a woman. However, notice what Paul wrote a few verses later:
"Greet Tryphena and Tryphosa, those women who work hard in the Lord." (Romans 16:12)
Tryphena and Tryphosa were both women, and their names are paired together in the above verse. Therefore, we can't say that Andronicus and Junia were husband and wife just because their names are paired together. In addition, the phrase "outstanding among the apostles" in Romans 16:7 (above) might mean that Andronicus and Junias were highly esteemed by the apostles instead of being apostles themselves. For example, here are some things that Bible commentaries say about this verse:
"Rom 16:7 - Andronicus and Junias (Andronicou kai Iounian). The first is a Greek name found even in the imperial household. The second name can be either masculine or feminine." (Robertson's Word Pictures of the New Testament, Romans 16:7, emphasis added)

"7. Andronicus and Junia - or, as it might be, "Junias," a contracted form of "Junianus"; in this case, it is a man's name. But if, as is more probable, the word be, as in our version, "Junia," the person meant was no doubt either the wife or the sister of Andronicus...
which are of note among the apostles - Those who think the word "apostle" is used in a lax sense, in the Acts and Epistles, take this to mean "noted apostles" [Chrysostom, Luther, Calvin, Bengel, Olshausen, Tholuck, Alford, Jowett]; others, who are not clear that the word "apostle" is applied to any without the circle of the Twelve, save where the connection or some qualifying words show that the literal meaning of "one sent" is the thing intended, understand by the expression used here, "persons esteemed by the apostles" [Beza, Grotius, De Wette, Meyer, Fritzsche, Stuart, Philippi, Hodge]. And of course, if "Junia" is to be taken for a woman, this latter must be the meaning." (Jamieson, Fausset, and Brown Commentary, Romans 16:7, emphasis added)

"Of note among the apostles. Well and favorably known to the apostles." (The People's New Testament commentary, Romans 16:6-16, emphasis added)

"Who are of note...Among the apostles - This does not mean that they "were" apostles, as has been sometimes supposed. For,
(1) There is no account of their having been appointed as such.
(2) the expression is not one which would have been used if they "had" been. It would have been "who were distinguished apostles;" compare Rom 1:1; 1Co 1:1; 2Co 1:1; Phi 1:1.
(3) it by no means implies that they were apostles All that the expression fairly implies is, that they were known to the other apostles; that they were regarded by them as worthy of their affection and confidence" (Albert Barnes' Notes on the Bible, Romans 16:7, emphasis added)

"Of note among the apostles - Whether this intimates that they were noted apostles or only highly reputed by the apostles, is not absolutely clear; but the latter appears to me the most probable. They were not only well known to St. Paul, but also to the rest of the apostles." (Adam Clarke's Commentary on the Bible, Romans 16:7, emphasis added)

"who are of note among the apostles; were well known by, and in great account with the twelve apostles, though not of their number" (John Gill's Exposition of the Bible, Romans 16:7, emphasis added)
So Bible scholars are not sure whether Junias (or Junia) was a man or a woman, and Bible scholars are not sure whether Andronicus and Junias (or Junia) were considered to be apostles or whether they were highly regarded by the apostles. Perhaps Andronicus and Junia were husband and wife, and perhaps they were apostles, but we can't say for certain one way or the other because the Bible does not give us that information.

The Greek word for "apostle" (apostolos) means:
"one sent, apostle, ambassador...it designates the office as instituted by Christ to witness of Him before the world...It also designates the authority which those called to this office possess...However, the denomination seems from the very beginning to have been applied, in a much wider sense, to all who ministered as colleagues of the Twelve and bore witness of Christ" (The Complete Word Study Dictionary of the Old and New Testaments, Dr. Spiros Zodhiates, apostolos).
Based on the definition of the Greek word for "apostle," plus the fact that we see people in the New Testament who became apostles after the cross (in the above passages), there's no reason to assume that apostles were limited to the first century. The New Testament never says that apostles were only for the first century, so it's unscriptural and inaccurate to refer to the first century as "the apostolic age" as many people do. In fact, Ephesians 4:11-13 specifically says that apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, and teachers are needed "until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature." This level of unity, knowledge, and maturity has never been achieved in the body of Christ (see section #21 in my article called Cheat Sheet), so apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, and teachers are still needed even to this day, and God places them into the body of Christ when and where and how He wants them (1 Corinthians 12:18).

Some people believe that Paul specifically said that he was the last apostle, so they claim that there will never be any more apostles:
"For I delivered to you first of all that which I also received: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, and that He was buried, and that He rose again the third day according to the Scriptures, and that He was seen by Cephas, then by the twelve. After that He was seen by over five hundred brethren at once, of whom the greater part remain to the present, but some have fallen asleep. After that He was seen by James, then by all the apostles. Then last of all He was seen by me also, as by one born out of due time. For I am the least of the apostles, who am not worthy to be called an apostle, because I persecuted the church of God." (1 Corinthians 15:3-9 NKJV)
Paul was originally a Jewish Pharisee named Saul who persecuted Christians (Acts 26:1-20), but he received salvation when Jesus appeared to him on the road to Damascus (Acts 9:3-9, 22:6-11, 26:12-20) and from then on he was usually referred to by his Roman name of Paul (Acts 13:9). In the above passage, Paul said that he was the "last of all" to see Jesus, which doesn't mean that Paul was the very last person to see Jesus because shortly after Jesus appeared to Paul on the road to Damascus He then appeared to a disciple named Ananias (Acts 9:10-21). It also doesn't mean that Paul was the very last apostle to see Jesus because decades later Jesus appeared to the apostle John in visions that he recorded in the book of Revelation (see my article called Who Wrote the New Testament?). So all we can say is that at the time when Paul wrote 1 Corinthians 15:3-9 (above), he was the last apostle at that point to have seen Jesus after His resurrection. When he said that he was "one born out of due time" (1 Corinthians 15:8 NKJV) or "one abnormally born" (1 Corinthians 15:8 NIV), Bible commentaries tend to say it means that Paul never traveled with Jesus before the cross as the original twelve apostles did, so Paul didn't feel worthy to be an apostle (see the last sentence in the above passage). But Paul never said that he was the very last apostle ever, and the Bible never says that he was the very last apostle ever.

Another wrong assumption that some people make concerns the death of the apostle James:
"It was about this time that King Herod arrested some who belonged to the church, intending to persecute them. He had James, the brother of John, put to death with the sword." (Acts 12:1-2)
Bible commentaries say that James, the brother of John, was the first of the twelve apostles to die after the cross, and some people argue that he was never replaced as one of the Twelve and therefore the office of apostle was never meant to continue beyond the first century. However, this is a false argument that extrapolates beyond what the New Testament actually says. Recall that before the cross, Jesus selected twelve men and designated them as apostles (Luke 6:12-13), and one of those men was Judas Iscariot who betrayed Jesus (Matthew 26:47-48) and then hung himself (Matthew 27:3-5). After Jesus died and was resurrected and went up to heaven, the apostle Peter said that someone must be chosen to take Judas' place as one of the Twelve, and it must be someone who had traveled with Jesus during His life and was a witness of His resurrection (Judas killed himself before the cross so he was never a witness of Jesus' resurrection). A man named Matthias was chosen by lot to become part of the Twelve (Acts 1:1-26).

The argument that some people make is that Matthias replaced Judas as one of the Twelve, yet after the apostle James died (Acts 12:1-2, above) no one replaced him as one of the Twelve, which (according to this argument) proves that apostles were never meant to continue beyond the first century. The error in this argument is that the twelve apostles who lived with Jesus and were witnesses of His resurrection always had been and always will be a specific group, separate from all other apostles such as Paul. Notice that they're referred to as "the Twelve," indicating that they were a specific group:
"Now Jesus was going up to Jerusalem. On the way, he took the Twelve aside and said to them" (Matthew 20:17)

"Now Thomas (also known as Didymus), one of the Twelve, was not with the disciples when Jesus came." (John 20:24)

"So the Twelve gathered all the disciples together and said, "It would not be right for us to neglect the ministry of the word of God in order to wait on tables."" (Acts 6:2)

"For what I received I passed on to you as of first importance: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Cephas, and then to the Twelve. After that, he appeared to more than five hundred of the brothers and sisters at the same time, most of whom are still living, though some have fallen asleep. Then he appeared to James, then to all the apostles, and last of all he appeared to me also, as to one abnormally born. For I am the least of the apostles and do not even deserve to be called an apostle, because I persecuted the church of God." (1 Corinthians 15:3-9)

"One of the seven angels who had the seven bowls full of the seven last plagues came and said to me, "Come, I will show you the bride, the wife of the Lamb." And he carried me away in the Spirit to a mountain great and high, and showed me the Holy City, Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God. It shone with the glory of God, and its brilliance was like that of a very precious jewel, like a jasper, clear as crystal. It had a great, high wall with twelve gates, and with twelve angels at the gates. On the gates were written the names of the twelve tribes of Israel. There were three gates on the east, three on the north, three on the south and three on the west. The wall of the city had twelve foundations, and on them were the names of the twelve apostles of the Lamb." (Revelation 21:9-14)
The twelve apostles who traveled with Jesus before the cross and were witnesses of His resurrection were not just twelve people out of the total number of apostles that we see in the New Testament, but instead they were always a specific group that was separate from all other apostles. In the above passages they're referred to as "the Twelve," and Revelation 21:9-14 (above) says that their names will be memorialized for all eternity as "the twelve apostles of the Lamb." The reason why no one replaced the apostle James or any of the other members of the Twelve after they died is because the Twelve were a group of twelve specific men, not a group of twelve that needed replacements when a member died. Judas Iscariot was replaced as one of the Twelve because he never fulfilled the requirement of being a witness of Jesus' resurrection. So the fact that no one replaced James as one of the Twelve does not in any way mean that apostles were never meant to continue beyond the first century.

Some people argue that the office of an apostle has passed away since the New Testament never instructs churches to ordain apostles, but this argument doesn't stand up to scrutiny because we never see any apostles being ordained by churches or human leaders in the New Testament. Acts 13:1-4 (below) is the only passage that comes anywhere close to an "ordination" of apostles:
"Now in the church at Antioch there were prophets and teachers: Barnabas, Simeon called Niger, Lucius of Cyrene, Manaen (who had been brought up with Herod the tetrarch) and Saul. While they were worshiping the Lord and fasting, the Holy Spirit said, "Set apart for me Barnabas and Saul for the work to which I have called them." So after they had fasted and prayed, they placed their hands on them and sent them off. The two of them, sent on their way by the Holy Spirit, went down to Seleucia and sailed from there to Cyprus." (Acts 13:1-4)

"Paul, an apostle - sent not from men nor by a man, but by Jesus Christ and God the Father, who raised him from the dead" (Galatians 1:1)

"So Paul and Barnabas spent considerable time there, speaking boldly for the Lord, who confirmed the message of his grace by enabling them to perform signs and wonders. The people of the city were divided; some sided with the Jews, others with the apostles...But when the apostles Barnabas and Paul heard of this, they tore their clothes and rushed out into the crowd, shouting" (Acts 14:3-4, 14)
In Acts 13:1-4 (above), Barnabas and Saul are described as being two of the prophets and/or teachers in the church at Antioch (Saul was also known as Paul - Acts 13:9). That passage goes on to say that the Holy Spirit told the group (presumably through one of the prophets) to set apart Barnabas and Saul/Paul for the work that they must do. The other men laid hands on Barnabas and Saul/Paul and sent them off. In the last verse of that passage we're specifically told that Barnabas and Saul/Paul were sent on their way by the Holy Spirit, and in Galatians 1:1 (above) Paul specifically said that he was not sent as an apostle from men or by men but by God. For example, in this series we've seen lists of requirements that must be met before people can be appointed for positions of leadership and service in church and ministry (deacons, elders, bishops, overseers, leaders, and pastors). But there are no lists of requirements in the New Testament that must be met before people can be appointed or ordained as apostles because churches and human leaders do not appoint or ordain apostles. Only God can appoint apostles. Barnabas and Paul were not ordained as apostles by men; they were sent out as apostles by God (Acts 13:1-4, 14:3-4, 14, above).

If God chooses to appoint people as apostles today, how will we recognize them? These passages appear to be the only New Testament descriptions of the distinguishing characteristics of apostles:
"In those days Peter stood up among the believers (a group numbering about a hundred and twenty) and said, "Brothers and sisters, the Scripture had to be fulfilled in which the Holy Spirit spoke long ago through David concerning Judas, who served as guide for those who arrested Jesus. He was one of our number and shared in our ministry." (With the payment he received for his wickedness, Judas bought a field; there he fell headlong, his body burst open and all his intestines spilled out. Everyone in Jerusalem heard about this, so they called that field in their language Akeldama, that is, Field of Blood.) "For," said Peter, "it is written in the Book of Psalms: 'May his place be deserted; let there be no one to dwell in it,' and, 'May another take his place of leadership.' Therefore it is necessary to choose one of the men who have been with us the whole time the Lord Jesus was living among us, beginning from John's baptism to the time when Jesus was taken up from us. For one of these must become a witness with us of his resurrection." So they nominated two men: Joseph called Barsabbas (also known as Justus) and Matthias. Then they prayed, "Lord, you know everyone's heart. Show us which of these two you have chosen to take over this apostolic ministry, which Judas left to go where he belongs." Then they cast lots, and the lot fell to Matthias; so he was added to the eleven apostles." (Acts 1:15-26)

"Am I not free? Am I not an apostle? Have I not seen Jesus our Lord? Are you not the result of my work in the Lord? Even though I may not be an apostle to others, surely I am to you! For you are the seal of my apostleship in the Lord." (1 Corinthians 9:1-2)

"I have made a fool of myself, but you drove me to it. I ought to have been commended by you, for I am not in the least inferior to the "super-apostles," even though I am nothing. I persevered in demonstrating among you the marks of a true apostle, including signs, wonders and miracles. How were you inferior to the other churches, except that I was never a burden to you? Forgive me this wrong! Now I am ready to visit you for the third time, and I will not be a burden to you, because what I want is not your possessions but you. After all, children should not have to save up for their parents, but parents for their children." (2 Corinthians 12:11-14)
In Acts 1:15-26 (above), two men were nominated to take the place of Judas Iscariot (who had betrayed Jesus and killed himself), and then Peter or someone cast lots to allow the Lord to show them which man would take Judas' place as one of the Twelve. Once again we can see that apostles are neither chosen nor ordained by people; they are chosen by God. Peter said that "one of these must become a witness with us of his resurrection," which indicates that only someone who had seen Jesus alive after the cross could become the next member of the Twelve. Perhaps this means that all apostles must be people who have seen Jesus alive after the cross, or perhaps that requirement only applied to the Twelve since they were considered to be a special group as we saw.

In 1 Corinthians 9:1-2 (above), the apostle Paul said, "Am I not an apostle? Have I not seen Jesus our Lord?" It's possible that this indicates that an apostle must be someone who has seen Jesus alive after the cross, but it's also possible that Paul was saying "not only am I an apostle, but in addition I have also seen Jesus." Notice that Paul asked four questions in that passage, which are highlighted above. His first question ("Am I not free?"), his second question ("Am I not an apostle?"), and his fourth question ("Are you not the result of my work in the Lord?") are not requirements for being an apostle, so we can't be dogmatic that his third question ("Have I not seen Jesus our Lord?") is a requirement for being an apostle. Paul was not trying to list the requirements for being an apostle in that passage.

In 2 Corinthians 12:11-14 (above), Paul said that he had demonstrated the marks of a true apostle, including signs, wonders, and miracles. This tells us that signs, wonders, and miracles are the mark of an apostle, but there's nothing in the context of that passage, and nothing anywhere else in the New Testament, that tells us what kinds of signs, wonders, and miracles enable us to recognize that someone is an apostle. For example, Stephen and Philip were not apostles (Acts 6:2-5), yet they performed signs and wonders and miracles. In addition, various Christians will be given the spiritual gifts of miracles and healings and so on, and we're specifically told to eagerly desire the greater gifts. Plus, we're told that false messiahs and false prophets will perform great signs and wonders:
"Now Stephen, a man full of God's grace and power, performed great wonders and signs among the people." (Acts 6:8)

"Those who had been scattered preached the word wherever they went. Philip went down to a city in Samaria and proclaimed the Messiah there. When the crowds heard Philip and saw the signs he performed, they all paid close attention to what he said. For with shrieks, impure spirits came out of many, and many who were paralyzed or lame were healed...Simon himself believed and was baptized. And he followed Philip everywhere, astonished by the great signs and miracles he saw." (Acts 8:4-7, 13)

"Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good. To one there is given through the Spirit a message of wisdom, to another a message of knowledge by means of the same Spirit, to another faith by the same Spirit, to another gifts of healing by that one Spirit, to another miraculous powers, to another prophecy, to another distinguishing between spirits, to another speaking in different kinds of tongues, and to still another the interpretation of tongues. All these are the work of one and the same Spirit, and he distributes them to each one, just as he determines." (1 Corinthians 12:7-11)

"And God has placed in the church first of all apostles, second prophets, third teachers, then miracles, then gifts of healing, of helping, of guidance, and of different kinds of tongues. Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Do all work miracles? Do all have gifts of healing? Do all speak in tongues? Do all interpret? Now eagerly desire the greater gifts. And yet I will show you the most excellent way." (1 Corinthians 12:28-31)

"I would like to learn just one thing from you: Did you receive the Spirit by the works of the law, or by believing what you heard? Are you so foolish? After beginning by means of the Spirit, are you now trying to finish by means of the flesh? Have you experienced so much in vain - if it really was in vain? So again I ask, does God give you his Spirit and work miracles among you by the works of the law, or by your believing what you heard?" (Galatians 3:2-5)

"For false messiahs and false prophets will appear and perform great signs and wonders to deceive, if possible, even the elect." (Matthew 24:24)

"The coming of the lawless one will be in accordance with how Satan works. He will use all sorts of displays of power through signs and wonders that serve the lie" (2 Thessalonians 2:9)
Since Paul and Barnabas and others were sent out as apostles by God after the cross, and since the New Testament never says that apostles were only for the first century, this means that God could send out people as apostles even today. But if the Lord chooses to appoint people as apostles today, how can they prove that they are apostles or that they saw the Lord (if that's a requirement)? Will anyone believe them? They will be able to perform signs and wonders and miracles, but this is also true of all of the non-apostles in the above passages. So how can we discern which people (if any) are truly apostles today? It's an interesting question without a clear scriptural answer.

We've seen that the Bible doesn't forbid women from being deacons and elders, and in the same way, the Bible doesn't forbid women from being apostles. If a woman is truly an apostle then she was appointed to that position by God.


Are Women Allowed to Be Prophets or Evangelists?

In this series we've seen lists of requirements that must be met before people can be appointed for positions of leadership and service in church and ministry (deacons, elders, bishops, overseers, leaders, and pastors), so we know that not everyone is qualified for those positions. However, there are no lists of requirements that must be met before people can be appointed as prophets or evangelists, which means that prophets and evangelists are not appointed by human decisions.

For example, this quote from a New Testament Greek dictionary describes the meaning of the Greek word for "prophet":
"A prophet, a foreteller of future events, also an interpreter...Generally of persons acting by divine influence as prophets and ambassadors of God under the new dispensation, equivalent to a teacher sent from God...Specifically of those who possessed the prophetic gift or charisma imparted by the Holy Spirit...Prophets were a class of instructors or preachers who were next in rank to the Apostles and before the teachers (1Co 12:28)...The idea of speaking from an immediate revelation seems here to be fundamental, as relating either to future events or to the mind of the Spirit in general...Two things are combined to make the prophet: an insight granted by God into the divine secrets or mysteries, and a communication to others of these secrets...They were messengers or communicators. Such prophets were not ordained in local churches" (The Complete Word Study Dictionary of the Old and New Testaments, Dr. Spiros Zodhiates, prophetes)
This quote from a New Testament Greek dictionary describes the meaning of the Greek word for "evangelist":
"An evangelist, a preacher of the gospel. He was often not located in any particular place but traveled as a missionary to preach the gospel and establish churches...Apparently those who acted as missionaries to the Gentiles and to those who never heard the gospel were called evangelists. An evangelist knew the gospel narrative thoroughly and was capable of explaining it, as Philip the evangelist did to the eunuch...The term was later used to indicate the writers of the life of Christ, such as Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John." (The Complete Word Study Dictionary of the Old and New Testaments, Dr. Spiros Zodhiates, euaggelistes)
In Greek dictionaries (such as the quotes above) and Bible commentaries we can see that there are no requirements that must be met before people can be appointed as prophets or evangelists because prophets and evangelists are not appointed by humans. The following passages contain the most representative descriptions that I could find of Christian prophets or Christians prophesying (the other passages are 1 Corinthians 13:8-10, 14:21-25, Ephesians 3:2-6, Revelation 10:7-11, 11:3-12, 16-18, 16:5-6, 18:18-21, 22:6-10), and we can see that prophets are never said to be appointed by humans:
"Then Peter stood up with the Eleven, raised his voice and addressed the crowd: "Fellow Jews and all of you who live in Jerusalem, let me explain this to you; listen carefully to what I say. These people are not drunk, as you suppose. It's only nine in the morning! No, this is what was spoken by the prophet Joel: 'In the last days, God says, I will pour out my Spirit on all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy, your young men will see visions, your old men will dream dreams. Even on my servants, both men and women, I will pour out my Spirit in those days, and they will prophesy.'"" (Acts 2:14-18)

"During this time some prophets came down from Jerusalem to Antioch. One of them, named Agabus, stood up and through the Spirit predicted that a severe famine would spread over the entire Roman world. (This happened during the reign of Claudius.)" (Acts 11:27-28)

"Now in the church at Antioch there were prophets and teachers: Barnabas, Simeon called Niger, Lucius of Cyrene, Manaen (who had been brought up with Herod the tetrarch) and Saul." (Acts 13:1)

"Judas and Silas, who themselves were prophets, said much to encourage and strengthen the believers." (Acts 15:32)

"While Apollos was at Corinth, Paul took the road through the interior and arrived at Ephesus. There he found some disciples and asked them, "Did you receive the Holy Spirit when you believed?" They answered, "No, we have not even heard that there is a Holy Spirit." So Paul asked, "Then what baptism did you receive?" "John's baptism," they replied. Paul said, "John's baptism was a baptism of repentance. He told the people to believe in the one coming after him, that is, in Jesus." On hearing this, they were baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus. When Paul placed his hands on them, the Holy Spirit came on them, and they spoke in tongues and prophesied. There were about twelve men in all." (Acts 19:1-7)

"Leaving the next day, we reached Caesarea and stayed at the house of Philip the evangelist, one of the Seven. He had four unmarried daughters who prophesied." (Acts 21:8-9)

"After we had been there a number of days, a prophet named Agabus came down from Judea. Coming over to us, he took Paul's belt, tied his own hands and feet with it and said, "The Holy Spirit says, 'In this way the Jewish leaders in Jerusalem will bind the owner of this belt and will hand him over to the Gentiles.'" When we heard this, we and the people there pleaded with Paul not to go up to Jerusalem. Then Paul answered, "Why are you weeping and breaking my heart? I am ready not only to be bound, but also to die in Jerusalem for the name of the Lord Jesus." When he would not be dissuaded, we gave up and said, "The Lord's will be done." After this, we started on our way up to Jerusalem." (Acts 21:10-15)

"For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith" (Romans 12:4-6)

"Every man who prays or prophesies with his head covered dishonors his head. But every woman who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head - it is the same as having her head shaved." (1 Corinthians 11:4-5)

"And God has placed in the church first of all apostles, second prophets, third teachers, then miracles, then gifts of healing, of helping, of guidance, and of different kinds of tongues. Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Do all work miracles? Do all have gifts of healing? Do all speak in tongues? Do all interpret? Now eagerly desire the greater gifts. And yet I will show you the most excellent way." (1 Corinthians 12:28-31)

"Follow the way of love and eagerly desire gifts of the Spirit, especially prophecy. For anyone who speaks in a tongue does not speak to people but to God. Indeed, no one understands them; they utter mysteries by the Spirit. But the one who prophesies speaks to people for their strengthening, encouraging and comfort. Anyone who speaks in a tongue edifies themselves, but the one who prophesies edifies the church. I would like every one of you to speak in tongues, but I would rather have you prophesy. The one who prophesies is greater than the one who speaks in tongues, unless someone interprets, so that the church may be edified." (1 Corinthians 14:1-5)

"What then shall we say, brothers and sisters? When you come together, each of you has a hymn, or a word of instruction, a revelation, a tongue or an interpretation. Everything must be done so that the church may be built up. If anyone speaks in a tongue, two - or at the most three - should speak, one at a time, and someone must interpret. If there is no interpreter, the speaker should keep quiet in the church and speak to himself and to God. Two or three prophets should speak, and the others should weigh carefully what is said. And if a revelation comes to someone who is sitting down, the first speaker should stop. For you can all prophesy in turn so that everyone may be instructed and encouraged. The spirits of prophets are subject to the control of prophets." (1 Corinthians 14:26-32)

"If anyone thinks they are a prophet or otherwise gifted by the Spirit, let them acknowledge that what I am writing to you is the Lord's command." (1 Corinthians 14:37)

"Therefore, my brothers and sisters, be eager to prophesy, and do not forbid speaking in tongues." (1 Corinthians 14:39)

"Consequently, you are no longer foreigners and strangers, but fellow citizens with God's people and also members of his household, built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, with Christ Jesus himself as the chief cornerstone. In him the whole building is joined together and rises to become a holy temple in the Lord. And in him you too are being built together to become a dwelling in which God lives by his Spirit." (Ephesians 2:19-22)

"So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors [shepherds] and teachers, to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ." (Ephesians 4:11-13)

"Above all, you must understand that no prophecy of Scripture came about by the prophet's own interpretation of things. For prophecy never had its origin in the human will, but prophets, though human, spoke from God as they were carried along by the Holy Spirit." (2 Peter 1:20-21)
When we try to see the full picture in the New Testament concerning Christian prophets and Christians prophesying, it's clear that women are allowed to prophesy and that women are never excluded from being prophets. Also, notice that nowhere does the New Testament ever say that prophets or prophesying were only meant for the first century (concerning 1 Corinthians 13:8-10, see Objection #5 in chapter 2 of the free PDF of my book called "Divine Healing Absolutely Is for Today"). As we saw earlier, apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, and teachers are still needed even to this day, and God places them into the body of Christ when and where and how He wants them (1 Corinthians 12:18).

Concerning evangelists, these are all of the New Testament passages that specifically describe evangelists, and we can see that they're never said to be appointed by humans:
"Leaving the next day, we reached Caesarea and stayed at the house of Philip the evangelist, one of the Seven." (Acts 21:8)

"So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors [shepherds] and teachers, to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ." (Ephesians 4:11-13)

"But you, keep your head in all situations, endure hardship, do the work of an evangelist, discharge all the duties of your ministry." (2 Timothy 4:5)

The passages in this section make it clear that women are never excluded from being prophets or evangelists. If a woman is truly a prophet or an evangelist then she was appointed to that position by God.


What Is "Headship"?

Now let's look at the order of "headship" that God has established:
"Now I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God." (1 Corinthians 11:3)
Notice that God the Father is the head of Christ the Son. This doesn't mean that Jesus is inferior to the Father (because they're both God), but there's an order in the roles and relationships between them. The above verse also says that Christ is the head of man, and then it says that "the head of the woman is man."

Every occurrence of the word "man" in the above verse comes from the Greek word aner, which can mean "man" or "husband" (see Strong's Hebrew and Greek Dictionary, for example). The word "woman" in the above verse comes from the Greek word gune, which can mean "woman" or "wife" as we saw in Part One. So in 1 Corinthians 11:3 (above), the Greek text essentially says, "the head of gune is aner," and most versions of the Bible have translated this as some variation of, "the head of woman is man." But does this mean that all men are the heads over all women? For example, does a man have the right to claim headship over another man's wife? If not, then what does this verse mean?

Notice how this verse is translated in a literal version of the Bible:
"and I wish you to know that of every man the head is the Christ, and the head of a woman is the husband, and the head of Christ is God." (1 Corinthians 11:3 YLT)
As we'll see, the Bible does not say that all men are the "head" of all women, but instead it says that the husband is the "head" of the wife.

Some people argue that the word "head" does not refer to authority, but rather it refers to the "source" of something (and therefore "headship" does not require a wife to submit in any way to her husband). However, the New Testament strongly refutes that argument because the following passages demonstrate that wives are told to submit to the headship of their husbands (in the next section we'll look closely at what "submission" means and what it does not mean):
  • 1 Corinthians 14:34
    "Women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the law says." (1 Corinthians 14:34)
    In Part One we saw that the apostle Paul was speaking to wives in this passage, saying that they must be in submission "as the law says." Most Bible commentaries that I've checked do not provide a Scripture reference to explain "as the law says," but in the few Bible commentaries that do provide a Scripture reference it's always Genesis 3:16 as in these examples:
    "the law - a term applied to the whole Old Testament; here, Gen 3:16." (Jamieson, Fausset, and Brown Commentary, 1 Corinthians 14:34, emphasis added)

    "But - to be under obedience, as also saith the law - This is a reference to Gen 3:16 : Thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee. From this it is evident that it was the disorderly and disobedient that the apostle had in view; and not any of those on whom God had poured out his Spirit." (Adam Clarke's Commentary on the Bible, 1 Corinthians 14:34, emphasis added)

    "when Eve is named in the Old Testament, it is as Adam's wife (Gen 3:20; cf. 2Co 11:2-3, the only other NT passage besides 1Ti 2:13-14 that names Eve), and her submission is rooted in that relationship (Gen 3:16, the text Paul probably referred to in 1Co 14:34)." (The Bible Knowledge Commentary, Walvoord and Zuck, Dallas Theological Seminary, 1 Corinthians 14:33-36, emphasis added)
    Genesis 3:16 is in the middle of a passage that describes God's judgments immediately after the Fall:
    "Then the LORD God said to the woman, "What is this you have done?" The woman said, "The serpent deceived me, and I ate." So the LORD God said to the serpent, "Because you have done this, "Cursed are you above all livestock and all wild animals! You will crawl on your belly and you will eat dust all the days of your life. And I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your offspring and hers; he will crush your head, and you will strike his heel." To the woman he said, "I will make your pains in childbearing very severe; with painful labor you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you." To Adam he said, "Because you listened to your wife and ate fruit from the tree about which I commanded you, 'You must not eat from it,' "Cursed is the ground because of you; through painful toil you will eat food from it all the days of your life. It will produce thorns and thistles for you, and you will eat the plants of the field. By the sweat of your brow you will eat your food until you return to the ground, since from it you were taken; for dust you are and to dust you will return."" (Genesis 3:13-19)
    Since Genesis 3:16 is most likely what Paul meant when he said "as the law says," this indicates that the submission in 1 Corinthians 14:34 (above) refers to a wife being in submission to her husband. Later we'll examine what this submission means and what it does not mean.

    Husbands might be tempted to think of their wives' submission as being a blessing, as if the husband gets to be the boss in the marriage. It's not a blessing. It's one of the evils with which the human race was cursed because of sin:
    "No matter how hard people try to do away with male dominion, agonizing labor, painful childbearing, and death, these evils will continue because sin is present. They are fruits of sin." (The Bible Knowledge Commentary, Walvoord and Zuck, Dallas Theological Seminary, Genesis 3:14-19)

  • Ephesians 5:21-33
    "Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church - for we are members of his body...However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband." (Ephesians 5:21-33)
    Here Paul specifically made an association between "headship" and submission. He said that just as the Church (the body of Christ) submits to Christ (our "Head"), so also a wife should submit to her husband (her "head") and respect him.

    However, Paul also said that husbands must love their wives just as Christ loves the Church, and as husbands love their own bodies. In fact, Ephesians 5:21 (above) says to submit to one another, so a husband should also be willing to submit to his wife's desires and plans and so on.

    Headship and submission are not meant to imply a situation of dominance and subjugation, nor do they imply superiority and inferiority. Here's what a New Testament Greek word study dictionary says about this passage:
    "In Eph. 5:24 Paul says she should do this [place herself under her husband] as the Church hupotassetai, finds her place under Christ...The submission of the Church is not brought about by subjugation. It is through the wooing of the Holy Spirit...The love of the husband wins the wife who finds her natural shelter under her husband." (The Complete Word Study Dictionary of the Old and New Testaments, Dr. Spiros Zodhiates, aner, emphasis added)

    "In Eph. 5:33, "Nevertheless, let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband" (KJV); "respect" (NASB, NIV). If the proper position of a wife is under her husband, then at all times she should look up to him and the husband should stand so high as to give his wife someone to really look up to with the greatest respect. The verb phobeomai does not mean paralyzing fear, but respect which is the response to abundant, sincere love of the husband toward his wife, for "there is no fear in love" (1 John 4:18)." (The Complete Word Study Dictionary of the Old and New Testaments, Dr. Spiros Zodhiates, aner, emphasis added)
    So according to the shades of meaning in the Greek, the husband's love and respect for his wife, as well as his actions and behaviors, should enable his wife to look up to him with sincere love and respect. This is the ideal that husbands and wives should strive for. There's no superiority or subjugation by the husband, nor is there any inferiority or fear on the part of the wife.

  • Colossians 3:18-19
    "Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them." (Colossians 3:18-19)
    Notice that wives are specifically told to submit to their husbands, and notice that husbands must love their wives and not be harsh with them. Again, headship and submission are not meant to imply a situation of dominance and subjugation, nor do they imply superiority and inferiority. Here's what a New Testament Greek word study dictionary says about this passage:
    "In Col. 3:18 (KJV), it is a command to wives: "Wives, submit yourselves (hupotassesthe, the pres. continuous mid. voice)." In the NASB, "be subject to your husbands"; NIV, "Submit to your husbands." This is the response of a wife to the love shown by the husband. She finds her place under her husband because that is the thing she wants to do...This is how things have been arranged by the Lord. Woman was created from man and she finds her fulfillment in one man whom the Lord gives to her for life (Gen. 2:21-24)." (The Complete Word Study Dictionary of the Old and New Testaments, Dr. Spiros Zodhiates, aner, emphasis added)
    So according to the shades of meaning in the Greek, it's not the husband's place to subjugate his wife under his domination. Rather, he should love his wife and treat her properly, and the wife should voluntarily place herself under her husband's loving care.

  • 1 Timothy 2:11
    "Let a woman learn in silence with all submission." (1 Timothy 2:11 NKJV)
    We'll examine this verse in a later section, but here's what one Bible commentary says about it:
    "Let a woman learn is a command. Women are encouraged to learn in the local assembly but with a proper attitude. Here Paul rises above the Greek culture, since the first-century woman in Greece was not considered able to learn. Paul disavows that myth and exhorts Timothy to provide opportunity for women to learn. The apostle who made such full use of women in ministry (Rom 16:3-15) set a great example for Timothy. In silence (Gk. hesuchia) is to be her attitude or disposition ("peaceable" in 1Ti 2:2 and "gentle and quiet" in 1Pe 3:4) while learning, as should be true of all believers. Paul is not saying that a woman may not speak in the local assembly (compare 1Co 11:2-16). A different Greek term (sigas) means to say nothing or not to speak. Though Paul grants this new privilege and freedom, he cautions that women are to learn with an attitude of all submission, not in a debating, unruly manner. The new freedom for those who have been kept in ignorance and consequent immaturity may easily be abused as was the case in Ephesus (1Ti 5:11-15)." (Nelson's New Illustrated Bible Commentary, 1 Timothy 2:11)

  • Titus 2:3-5
    "Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Then they can train the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God." (Titus 2:3-5)
    Once again we see that wives should "be subject to their husbands." Here's what a New Testament Greek word study dictionary says about this passage:
    "Titus 2:5, "obedient to their own husbands" (KJV); "subject" (NASB, NIV). The Gr. text is the pres. part. mid. voice hupotassomenas, placing themselves in their proper order under their husbands. It is a natural, voluntary attitude by the wife who finds her proper fulfillment in the love of her husband. She is not commanded there by her husband, but is wooed to his bosom. This is a constant, abiding attitude." (The Complete Word Study Dictionary of the Old and New Testaments, Dr. Spiros Zodhiates, aner, emphasis added)
    So again we see that the Greek text describes a voluntary attitude by the wife, not a command by the husband. Ideally, she should be wooed by him and find fulfillment in his love, as the above Greek dictionary describes it.

  • 1 Peter 3:1-7
    "Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight. For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to make themselves beautiful. They were submissive to their own husbands, like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her master. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear. Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers." (1 Peter 3:1-7)
    Here's what a New Testament Greek word study dictionary says about this passage:
    "1 Pet. 3:1, "Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands" (KJV); "be submissive" (NASB, NIV). The Gr. text says hupotassomenai, placing yourselves in your proper position under your husbands. Again it is a natural, voluntary, continuous attitude." (The Complete Word Study Dictionary of the Old and New Testaments, Dr. Spiros Zodhiates, aner, emphasis added)

    "1 Pet. 3:5, "for after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection (hupotassomenai) unto their own husbands." In the NASB and NIV, "being submissive," "were submissive." The Gr. text is "as they submitted themselves," or "placed themselves in their proper place under their husbands" (author's translations), the Lord having instituted that order of existence. Again, the verb is in the pres. mid. part., indicating that the wives voluntarily submitted themselves to their husbands." (The Complete Word Study Dictionary of the Old and New Testaments, Dr. Spiros Zodhiates, aner, emphasis added)


To summarize, there's a pattern in the New Testament in which wives are instructed to be in proper submission to their husbands, and husbands are commanded to treat their wives with the utmost love, honor, consideration, gentleness, and respect. In the next section we'll look more closely at what "submission" means.

Again, men and women are not inferior to each other, but God has established an order in the roles and relationships between a husband and wife, just as there's an order in the roles and relationships between God the Father and God the Son, and between Christ and the Church (the body of Christ).


What Does "Submission" Mean?

The idea of a wife submitting to her husband tends to be seen as a bad thing, as if the wife must be a "doormat" under the tyranny of her husband. However, this is a wrong understanding of submission.

Apart from a wife being in submission to her husband, here is every passage where the Greek words for submission are used in the context of humans (including Jesus) submitting to someone else:
"Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established. The authorities that exist have been established by God. Consequently, whoever rebels against the authority is rebelling against what God has instituted, and those who do so will bring judgment on themselves. For rulers hold no terror for those who do right, but for those who do wrong. Do you want to be free from fear of the one in authority? Then do what is right and you will be commended. For the one in authority is God's servant for your good. But if you do wrong, be afraid, for rulers do not bear the sword for no reason. They are God's servants, agents of wrath to bring punishment on the wrongdoer. Therefore, it is necessary to submit to the authorities, not only because of possible punishment but also as a matter of conscience. This is also why you pay taxes, for the authorities are God's servants, who give their full time to governing." (Romans 13:1-6)

"Two or three prophets should speak, and the others should weigh carefully what is said. And if a revelation comes to someone who is sitting down, the first speaker should stop. For you can all prophesy in turn so that everyone may be instructed and encouraged. The spirits of prophets are subject to the control of prophets." (1 Corinthians 14:29-32)

"When he has done this, then the Son himself will be made subject to him who put everything under him, so that God may be all in all." (1 Corinthians 15:26-28)

"This service that you perform is not only supplying the needs of the Lord's people but is also overflowing in many expressions of thanks to God. Because of the service by which you have proved yourselves, others will praise God for the obedience that accompanies your confession of the gospel of Christ, and for your generosity in sharing with them and with everyone else." (2 Corinthians 9:12-13)

"Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ." (Ephesians 5:21)

"Now as the church submits to Christ" (Ephesians 5:24)

"Remind the people to be subject to rulers and authorities, to be obedient, to be ready to do whatever is good, to slander no one, to be peaceable and considerate, and always to be gentle toward everyone." (Titus 3:1-2)

"Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of spirits and live!" (Hebrews 12:9)

"Have confidence in your leaders and submit to their authority, because they keep watch over you as those who must give an account. Do this so that their work will be a joy, not a burden, for that would be of no benefit to you." (Hebrews 13:17)

"Submit yourselves then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you." (James 4:7)

"Submit yourselves for the Lord's sake to every human authority: whether to the emperor, as the supreme authority, or to governors, who are sent by him to punish those who do wrong and to commend those who do right. For it is God's will that by doing good you should silence the ignorant talk of foolish people." (1 Peter 2:13-15)

"Likewise you younger people, submit yourselves to your elders. Yes, all of you be submissive to one another, and be clothed with humility, for "God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble."" (1 Peter 5:5 NKJV)
In the above passages we're told that Jesus will be subject to the Father, and earlier we saw that the head of Christ is God (1 Corinthians 11:3). Since Jesus never did anything wrong or bad during His life on earth, and since Jesus lived His whole life in submission to the Father, then there's nothing wrong or bad about submission itself. In addition, God never commands us to do anything evil or bad, and in some of the above passages we're told to be in submission to God. So when we have a proper understanding, we can see that submission itself is not meant to be a bad thing.

In the above passages we're also told that the spirits of prophets are subject to the prophets' control, and that younger people should submit themselves to their elders, and we're told to submit ourselves to every human authority, and we're told to submit to one another.

Submitting to another person essentially means voluntarily yielding to them in some way, which often involves putting aside our pride. At work we yield to our boss's instructions or decisions, and in life we yield to governmental authorities.

In virtually all areas of life, there's a leader of some kind "above us" who has decision-making authority. This doesn't make them better than us, but it means that we are meant to yield to their authority even if we're unable to respect the person holding that authority. In situations where we can't bring ourselves to yield to their decisions or instructions, or if it would be harmful to do so, then we should seek the Lord's guidance about it (for help with that, see my article called How to Discern God's Guidance) because the Bible doesn't provide guidelines to cover every specific scenario that we might encounter.

However, Christian leaders need to understand that they will be held accountable (Hebrews 13:17, above), and Christian teachers need to understand that they will be judged more strictly than others (James 3:1).

When we put all of the evidence together to see the full picture, it clearly shows that God has given the decision-making authority in a marriage to the husband due to Eve's original sin. The husband and wife should be a team, working together for the same goal of having a happy, thriving marriage, and the husband is essentially the team leader.

This doesn't give him the right to boss her around or treat her badly, but it means that he's the one who will be held accountable as the team leader. The wife will be held accountable for her own decisions and actions, but the husband is doubly accountable. First for his own decisions and actions, and second for his decisions and actions as the team leader. His bad decisions as team leader will count against him when we all stand before the judgment seat of Christ, but the wife will be commended for properly submitting to those decisions.

This does not mean that a wife must submit to abuse or harm or danger from her husband. What we've seen is that not only are wives told to respect and submit to their husbands, but husbands are told to love and respect their wives. It's a two-way thing of mutual respect and seeking to honor God. Abuse of any kind should never happen, but if it does then it should not be tolerated.

Keep in mind that we're all imperfect, which means that husbands might not always be someone that their wives can respect, and wives might not always submit perfectly. But as husbands and wives, their goal should be to honor the Lord in the way that they treat each other:
"Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church - for we are members of his body...However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband." (Ephesians 5:21-33)
To help clarify this point, here are things that Bible commentaries say concerning the above passage:
"Just as Christ is not inferior to the Father, but is the second person in the Trinity, so wives are equal to their own husbands. Yet in a marriage relationship, a husband and wife have different roles. to the Lord: A wife's voluntary submission arises out of her own submission to Christ." (Nelson's New Illustrated Bible Commentary, Ephesians 5:22-24)

"The relation of the wife to the husband is like that of the church in Christ, a close, tender relation, in which there is no bondage, but freedom, because the service is that of the heart." (The People's New Testament commentary, Ephesians 5:22-24)

"It is relatively easy to exhibit a Spirit-filled life for one or two hours a week in church but it takes the work of the Holy Spirit to exhibit godliness not only on Sundays but also in everyday relationships between wives and husbands, children and parents, and slaves and masters. In each of these three relationships the first partner is commanded to be submissive or obedient (Eph 5:22; Eph 6:1, Eph 6:5). But the second partner is also to show submissiveness by his care and concern for the first partner. Both partners are to act toward one another as a service rendered to the Lord...her submission to her husband is her service rendered "to the Lord" (cf. Col 3:18). The reason for this submission is that the husband is the head of the wife (cf. 1Co 11:3), and this is compared to Christ's headship over the church (Eph 5:23; cf. Eph 4:15; Col 1:18). As Christ is the Savior of the church, His body, so a husband should be the protector of his wife, who is "one flesh" with him (Gen 2:24). As the church is in submission to Christ, so also a wife should be to her husband. It would be foolish to think of the church being head over Christ. But submission does not mean inferiority. It means that she recognizes that her husband is the head of the home and responds to him accordingly without usurping his authority to herself." (The Bible Knowledge Commentary, Walvoord and Zuck, Dallas Theological Seminary, Ephesians 5:22-24)
Leaders are all imperfect, but it's proper to pay due honor and respect to the office that they hold. In a similar way, all husbands are human, and all husbands will make mistakes. But if the wife properly submits herself to the husband's role as the head of the family (even if she can't quite respect the man himself) then this honors God and He's likely to bless her obedience. However, keep in mind that grudging submission, or mocking submission, or any kind of submission with a bad attitude, demonstrates a heart that's filled with pride and rebellion. Therefore, this is not proper submission and we shouldn't expect God to bless it.

Ideally, a husband and wife will act as a team because they're "one flesh," and the husband is the team leader who is held accountable to God. For example, even though Eve was the one who was initially deceived and ate the forbidden fruit, the sins of the human race came through Adam. Both of them sinned, but Adam (the husband) was the one who was held accountable:
"And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner." (1 Timothy 2:14)

"Nevertheless, death reigned from the time of Adam to the time of Moses, even over those who did not sin by breaking a command, as did Adam, who was a pattern of the one to come. But the gift is not like the trespass. For if the many died by the trespass of the one man, how much more did God's grace and the gift that came by the grace of the one man, Jesus Christ, overflow to the many! Again, the gift of God is not like the result of the one man's sin: The judgment followed one sin and brought condemnation, but the gift followed many trespasses and brought justification. For if, by the trespass of the one man, death reigned through that one man, how much more will those who receive God's abundant provision of grace and of the gift of righteousness reign in life through the one man, Jesus Christ. Consequently, just as the result of one trespass was condemnation for all men, so also the result of one act of righteousness was justification that brings life for all men. For just as through the disobedience of the one man the many were made sinners, so also through the obedience of the one man the many will be made righteous." (Romans 5:14-19)

"For as in Adam all die, so in Christ all will be made alive." (1 Corinthians 15:22)
So Adam and Eve both sinned, and in fact Eve sinned first, but Adam (the husband and father) is the one who was held accountable for sin entering the world.

Since Adam (the husband and father) was held accountable for sin, and since all husbands and fathers are held accountable, this indicates that sin is passed down to every person through the father. Wives and mothers are never held accountable for any sins but their own, from Eve all the way down to today. For instance, we see "sins of the fathers" (not "sins of the parents" as the gender-neutral 2011 NIV says) being passed down to the children for several generations (e.g., Exodus 20:5 NKJV, Exodus 34:6-7 NKJV, Numbers 14:18 NKJV, Deuteronomy 5:9 NKJV, 1 Kings 16:11-13 NKJV, 2 Kings 9:6-9 NKJV, 2 Kings 10:10-11 NKJV, Lamentations 5:7 NKJV, Matthew 23:32 NKJV), but we never see any "sins of the mothers" being passed down to the children. Sin is not passed down through the mother. Jesus did not inherit sin when He was born as a human baby because He had a human mother but He did not have a human father. This is one reason why the virgin birth was necessary (for the other fascinating reason why the virgin birth was necessary, see my article called Covenants, Dispensations, and the Ten Commandments - Part One).

It's worth repeating that husbands might be tempted to think of their wives' submission as being a blessing, as if the husband gets to be the boss in the marriage. It's not a blessing. It's one of the evils with which the human race was cursed because of sin:
"No matter how hard people try to do away with male dominion, agonizing labor, painful childbearing, and death, these evils will continue because sin is present. They are fruits of sin." (The Bible Knowledge Commentary, Walvoord and Zuck, Dallas Theological Seminary, Genesis 3:14-19)

Are Women Allowed to Teach?

In Part One we saw that the weight of evidence shows that women are allowed to hold the position of an elder, bishop, overseer, leader, pastor, preacher, or teacher in church or in ministry. Now let's take a look at what the New Testament says about women teaching:
"A woman [gune] should learn in quietness and full submission [hupotage]. I do not permit a woman [gune] to teach or to have authority over a man [aner]; she must be silent. For Adam was formed first, then Eve. And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman [gune] who was deceived and became a sinner." (1 Timothy 2:11-14)
In verse 11 above, Paul spoke about "a woman" (or "a wife") learning in quietness and submission, which is exactly what he said about married women in 1 Corinthians 14:34-35 as we saw in Part One. Once again, the word "woman" here comes from the Greek word gune, which can mean "wife" or "woman," and the word "man" here comes from the Greek word aner, which can mean "husband" or "man." The word for "submission" comes from the same Greek word that we've seen throughout this series concerning a wife submitting to her husband. Since the same Greek words are being used in the same context that we saw earlier (concerning a wife submitting to her husband and learning in quietness during the church service), this indicates that Paul was once again speaking of husbands and wives in the above passage. This is further confirmed by the fact that Paul placed these comments in the context of Adam and his wife Eve.

In many Bible translations, Paul said that he did not permit a "woman" to teach (or to teach a man, depending on the Bible version) (verse 12, above). If we only look on the surface then we might be tempted to say that women must never teach in church or in ministry, but that would contradict other New Testament passages such as the following:
"Meanwhile a Jew named Apollos, a native of Alexandria, came to Ephesus. He was a learned man, with a thorough knowledge of the Scriptures. He had been instructed in the way of the Lord, and he spoke with great fervor and taught about Jesus accurately, though he knew only the baptism of John. He began to speak boldly in the synagogue. When Priscilla and Aquila heard him, they invited him to their home and explained to him the way of God more adequately." (Acts 18:24-26)

"And the Lord's servant must not quarrel; instead, he [the Greek word for "he" does not appear here] must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful." (2 Timothy 2:24)

"Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Then they can train the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God." (Titus 2:3-5)
In Acts 18:24-26 (above), Priscilla (a woman) was involved in teaching Apollos (a man). As we saw earlier, the apostle Paul most often mentioned her name before her husband's name, giving her prominence. In 2 Timothy 2:24 (above), Paul said that a servant of the Lord must be able to teach, and he didn't qualify this statement by restricting it only to men. In Titus 2:3-5 (above), Paul specifically said that older women should teach and train younger women, and some Bible commentaries (e.g., Nelson's New Illustrated Bible Commentary) say that this refers to a special ministry within the church.

So when Paul said in 1 Timothy 2:12 (above) that he didn't permit "women" to teach, he was not saying that women can never teach. Otherwise he would have been contradicting himself.

If you search online you'll find that virtually all pastors and Bible teachers say that the Great Commission (which Jesus gave to the entire Church body just before He ascended up to heaven) applies to every Christian, even today. This is Matthew's version of the Great Commission:
"Then Jesus came to them and said, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you."" (Matthew 28:18-20)
In the above passage, Jesus told the entire Church body to go and make disciples, to baptize them, and to teach them. The Great Commission (above) applies to every Christian, which means that men and women have been commissioned to do all of those things. Therefore, women are allowed to teach.

The Greek word for "teach" in 1 Timothy 2:12 (above) means "Teach, instruct by word of mouth" (The Complete Word Study Dictionary of the Old and New Testaments, Dr. Spiros Zodhiates, didasko). Notice that when someone speaks a word of prophecy from God, then that person is "instructing by word of mouth," and recall that earlier we saw a definition of the Greek word for prophet which said that "Prophets were a class of instructors or preachers who were next in rank to the Apostles."

With that in mind, here are some scriptural examples concerning women prophesying:
"In the last days, God says, I will pour out my Spirit on all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy, your young men will see visions, your old men will dream dreams." (Acts 2:17)

"Even on my servants, both men and women, I will pour out my Spirit in those days, and they will prophesy." (Acts 2:18)

"He had four unmarried daughters who prophesied." (Acts 21:9)

"And every woman who prays or prophesies" (1 Corinthians 11:5)
Again, prophesying involves "instructing by word of mouth" based on what the prophet or prophetess has heard from God, which means that the above passages involve women teaching Christian truths to other people (including to men).

Here are some more examples of women teaching Christian truths to men:
"The angel said to the women, "Do not be afraid, for I know that you are looking for Jesus, who was crucified. He is not here; he has risen, just as he said. Come and see the place where he lay. Then go quickly and tell his disciples: 'He has risen from the dead and is going ahead of you into Galilee. There you will see him.' Now I have told you."" (Matthew 28:5-7)

"Suddenly Jesus met them [the women]. "Greetings," he said. They came to him, clasped his feet and worshiped him. Then Jesus said to them, "Do not be afraid. Go and tell my brothers to go to Galilee; there they will see me."" (Matthew 28:9-10)

"As they [the women] entered the tomb, they saw a young man dressed in a white robe sitting on the right side, and they were alarmed. "Don't be alarmed," he said. "You are looking for Jesus the Nazarene, who was crucified. He has risen! He is not here. See the place where they laid him. But go, tell his disciples and Peter, 'He is going ahead of you into Galilee. There you will see him, just as he told you.'" Trembling and bewildered, the women went out and fled from the tomb. They said nothing to anyone, because they were afraid." (Mark 16:5-8)

"When Jesus rose early on the first day of the week, he appeared first to Mary Magdalene, out of whom he had driven seven demons. She went and told those who had been with him and who were mourning and weeping. When they heard that Jesus was alive and that she had seen him, they did not believe it." (Mark 16:9-11)

"When they came back from the tomb, they told all these things to the Eleven and to all the others. It was Mary Magdalene, Joanna, Mary the mother of James, and the others with them who told this to the apostles." (Luke 24:9-10)
In the above passages, an angel first told the truth of the Resurrection to women (not to men), and he commanded the women to impart this knowledge and information to the apostles. In fact, we also see that Jesus Himself first appeared to women (not to men) after His resurrection, and He commanded them to impart some knowledge and information to the apostles. So the very first people to teach the truth of the Resurrection were women, and the first people to whom the women taught this truth were men (the apostles). Notice that if it's wrong or sinful for women to teach spiritual truths to men, then Jesus would not have told women to teach men about His resurrection.

In addition, the words of Jesus' mother are recorded in Scripture for the purpose of teaching men and women about the goodness of God:
"And Mary said: "My soul glorifies the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, for he has been mindful of the humble state of his servant. From now on all generations will call me blessed, for the Mighty One has done great things for me - holy is his name. His mercy extends to those who fear him, from generation to generation. He has performed mighty deeds with his arm; he has scattered those who are proud in their inmost thoughts. He has brought down rulers from their thrones but has lifted up the humble. He has filled the hungry with good things but has sent the rich away empty. He has helped his servant Israel, remembering to be merciful to Abraham and his descendants forever, even as he said to our fathers."" (Luke 1:46-55)
The point of all of this is that women were allowed (and even commanded) to teach Christian truths in the New Testament, including teaching these truths to men. So what did Paul mean when he said that he didn't permit a "woman" to teach (1 Timothy 2:12, above)? Here are some things that a Greek dictionary says about that passage:
"1 Tim. 2:12 should not be interpreted as a prohibition by Paul for any woman to teach, but only for a wife when that teaching may be construed by those who hear her to think that she is dominant in her relationship with her husband...Paul is anxious to make very clear here that no woman through her teaching should give the impression that she is the boss and lording it over her husband. If any such impression is given at any time, then she should keep quiet (hesuchia [2271], be undisturbed and not disturbing others. The word hesuchia is the ant. of tarache [5016], disturbance). The word does not mean silence" (The Complete Word Study Dictionary of the Old and New Testaments, Dr. Spiros Zodhiates, gune, emphasis added)

"With the verb authenteo in 1 Tim. 2:12, "But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority [authentein, the pres. inf. of authenteo [831], to act as an absolute master]"...Such exercise of authority is forbidden by a wife over her husband in 1 Tim. 2:12. Nor is a husband permitted to be an autocrat over his wife...The argument here is that if a wife teaches indiscriminately, especially men, she may be so puffed up that she may be tempted to put a ring through her husband's nose and master him. The moral here is that a wife should avoid any activity which will in any way adversely affect her marital relationship. No teaching in the church or in the world is worth the price of a wrecked marriage. A wife cannot boss her husband, nor can a husband boss his wife. His love must voluntarily make her seek protection under him." (The Complete Word Study Dictionary of the Old and New Testaments, Dr. Spiros Zodhiates, aner, emphasis added)
Once again we can see that Paul was concerned about the relationship between a husband and a wife, and about proper orderliness in the church and in the home. Paul was not saying that women can never teach Christian truths because that would contradict all of the passages we examined above.

In addition, when Paul said that a "woman" or a "wife" (gune in the Greek) must not have authority over a "man" or a "husband" (aner in the Greek), the context indicates that he was referring to a wife not "lording it over" or "domineering" her husband (and a husband should not "lord it over" or "domineer" his wife, based on the passages we examined earlier). The Greek word for "authority" in 1 Timothy 2:12 (above) means:
"dominate: - usurp authority over" (Strong's Hebrew and Greek Dictionary, authenteo)

"to use or exercise authority or power over as an autocrat, to domineer (1Ti 2:12)." (The Complete Word Study Dictionary of the Old and New Testaments, Dr. Spiros Zodhiates, authenteo)

"one who acts on his own authority, autocratic; an absolute master; to govern, exercise dominion over one" (Thayer's Greek Dictionary, authenteo)

"to lord it over the man" (Jamieson, Fausset, and Brown Commentary, 1 Timothy 2:12)

"playing the master" (Robertson's Word Pictures of the New Testament, 1 Timothy 2:12)
Therefore, Paul's statement here is consistent with his other discussions of husbands and wives that we've already examined, and Paul reinforced this statement by placing it in the context of the very first husband and wife (1 Timothy 2:13-14, above). So 1 Timothy 2:12 (above) does not mean that women can never be in authority over men (such as a woman being in charge over a ministry in a church). Once again we see that many of Paul's comments concerning women are not intended to be commands to all women, but instead they're referring to the husband's and wife's behavior with each other in the home as well as in church.

In 1 Timothy 2:12 (above), Paul also said that the wife must be "silent." As the Greek dictionary quoted above points out, the Greek word used in verse 12 does not actually mean "silence," but instead it means "not disturbing others." According to Strong's Hebrew and Greek Dictionary, the noun form of that word is hesuchia ("stillness, that is, desistance from bustle or language: - quietness, silence"), and the adjective form is hesuchios ("keeping one's seat (sedentary), that is, (by implication) still (undisturbed, undisturbing): - peaceable, quiet").

Apart from 1 Timothy 2:11-12, here are all of the other occurrences of these two Greek words in the New Testament:
"When they heard him speak to them in Aramaic, they became very quiet [hesuchia]." (Acts 22:2)

"Such people we command and urge in the Lord Jesus Christ to settle down [hesuchia] and earn the bread they eat." (2 Thessalonians 3:12)

"for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful [hesuchios] and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness." (1 Timothy 2:2)

"Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet [hesuchios] spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight." (1 Peter 3:4)
Notice that these Greek words actually refer to being peaceful and settled down and not disturbing others, so Paul was not commanding women to be completely silent in church. Again, many of Paul's comments concerning women are not intended to be commands to all women, but instead they're referring to the husband's and wife's behavior with each other in church and in the home.


"There Is neither Male nor Female"

Some people use Galatians 3:28 to claim that there are no distinctions between men and women, and therefore there are no distinctions between men's and women's roles in the church and in the home:
"There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus." (Galatians 3:28)
Based on this verse, people sometimes claim that all distinctions between men and women have been erased, and therefore wives do not need to submit to their husbands.

However, notice that if Paul was teaching in Galatians 3:28 (above) that all distinctions between males and females have been erased, then he was also teaching in that passage that all distinctions between slave and free have been erased. Yet Paul specifically taught that the distinctions between slave and free within the body of Christ were not erased:
"Slaves, obey your earthly masters with respect and fear, and with sincerity of heart, just as you would obey Christ. Obey them not only to win their favor when their eye is on you, but like slaves of Christ, doing the will of God from your heart. Serve wholeheartedly, as if you were serving the Lord, not men, because you know that the Lord will reward everyone for whatever good he does, whether he is slave or free. And masters, treat your slaves in the same way. Do not threaten them, since you know that he who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and there is no favoritism with him." (Ephesians 6:5-9)

"Slaves, obey your earthly masters in everything; and do it, not only when their eye is on you and to win their favor, but with sincerity of heart and reverence for the Lord. Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving. Anyone who does wrong will be repaid for his wrong, and there is no favoritism. Masters, provide your slaves with what is right and fair, because you know that you also have a Master in heaven." (Colossians 3:22-4:1)

"All who are under the yoke of slavery should consider their masters worthy of full respect, so that God's name and our teaching may not be slandered. Those who have believing masters are not to show less respect for them because they are brothers. Instead, they are to serve them even better, because those who benefit from their service are believers, and dear to them. These are the things you are to teach and urge on them." (1 Timothy 6:1-2)

"Teach slaves to be subject to their masters in everything, to try to please them, not to talk back to them, and not to steal from them, but to show that they can be fully trusted, so that in every way they will make the teaching about God our Savior attractive." (Titus 2:9-10)
As abhorrent as slavery is, it was a reality in Paul's time. Paul clearly said that there continued to be differences in roles and relationships between slaves and masters in the body of Christ, and therefore Paul was not teaching in Galatians 3:28 (above) that all distinctions between slave and free have been abolished. This means that Paul was not teaching that all distinctions between men and women have been abolished.

When we look at Galatians 3:28 in its proper context, we can see what Paul was saying:
"But the Scripture declares that the whole world is a prisoner of sin, so that what was promised, being given through faith in Jesus Christ, might be given to those who believe. Before this faith came, we were held prisoners by the law, locked up until faith should be revealed. So the law was put in charge to lead us to Christ that we might be justified by faith. Now that faith has come, we are no longer under the supervision of the law. You are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus, for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. If you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham's seed, and heirs according to the promise." (Galatians 3:22-29)
In Galatians 3:28 (above), Paul was saying that men and women all receive justification in exactly the same way (by having the proper faith in Jesus - see my article called How to Receive Salvation), and that men and women who belong to Christ become heirs according to the promise made to Abraham. There's no difference in the way that men and women receive salvation, just as there's no difference in the way that Jews and Greeks, and slave and free, receive salvation. This passage says nothing at all about the proper roles and relationships between men and women in the church and in the home, so it does not teach that wives do not need to submit to their husbands.


Conclusion

Many of the New Testament instructions concerning husbands' and wives' roles, or concerning women in general, can be difficult for us to understand, and they need to be prayerfully and sensitively handled in the church and in the home.

But we should keep in mind that God is not looking for our approval of His commands, or whether we "like" His commands. He expects our obedience. If we seek to honestly understand and apply God's Word to our lives, honoring His ways above our own ways or our own desires, then He will greatly bless us for it.


Back to Part One.


For the glory of the Lord Jesus, the Christ, the Son of God, who came in the flesh, was delivered over to death for our sins, and was raised to life for our justification.

Dave Root
home page and email: https://www.vividchristianity.com

"Therefore I want you to know that no one who is speaking by the Spirit of God says, "Jesus be cursed," and no one can say, "Jesus is Lord," except by the Holy Spirit." (1 Corinthians 12:3)

"Who is the liar? It is whoever denies that Jesus is the Christ. Such a person is the antichrist - denying the Father and the Son. No one who denies the Son has the Father; whoever acknowledges the Son has the Father also." (1 John 2:22-23)

"If anyone acknowledges that Jesus is the Son of God, God lives in them and they in God." (1 John 4:15)

"Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world. This is how you can recognize the Spirit of God: Every spirit that acknowledges that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God, but every spirit that does not acknowledge Jesus is not from God. This is the spirit of the antichrist, which you have heard is coming and even now is already in the world." (1 John 4:1-3)

"And this is love: that we walk in obedience to his commands. As you have heard from the beginning, his command is that you walk in love. I say this because many deceivers, who do not acknowledge Jesus Christ as coming in the flesh, have gone out into the world. Any such person is the deceiver and the antichrist." (2 John 1:6-7)

"He was delivered over to death for our sins and was raised to life for our justification." (Romans 4:25)
 
 
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